Archive for the 'Life' Category

12 spots for foreplay

November 22, 2006

There are 12 spots to learn and practice for foreplay. For the front side, please visit HERE.


The colorful time of the year

November 6, 2006


Autumn is always with a rich palette of reds, oranges, browns and yellows. This is the colorful time of the year, when trees are shedding their leaves. This scene reminds me to Nat King Cole‘s song ;

“The falling leaves drift by the window
The autumn leaves of red and gold
I see your lips, the summer kisses
The sun-burned hands I used to hold”

I took these photos, while I roamed, and lingered around in a park of Ascherleben.



It’s him, again . He incidentally posed, while he looked at a bird, so I had to be in a hurry to catch the shot. There I got. :-). I still remember the moment, when we were wandering around in the park. It was such a romantic and peaceful moment. The tranquility maximized its importance in the surrounding, while we walked hand in hand.


Later we went near forrest picking up some mushrooms for our dinner at his aunt’s place. It was a short weekend trip and fabulous memory……..What a nice weekend. 🙂



A message from Berlin

November 4, 2006

This is my voice from a really cool website for sound clip, podcast and so on.:-) Lately, I’ve tested and found that sound quality is quite good. Despite, there is a problem, when a clip is loaded, it isn’t played from the beginning, but somewhere in the middle of the clip. However, I really like this online service. 😛



I live the life of faith

November 3, 2006


Woohoo………now is quite easy to add where I have been to a digital map…..Has life become easier than in the past?!? Oh my oh my, is there anything without interactive digital media in this era? I guess not. I’ve got this map from World66. Quite interesting website for everyone. 😛 In addition, I have not hit the Russian nor Far Eastern Europe area and yet this is an uncommon area, because they don’t speak English, or German, or even French. Those are only languages, which I can speak 😦


By the way, I still remember when I was young. Gay life was totally different, so people. I have met many people and seen many cultural diversities………. I love to travel and still have been travelling around like a normal backpacker, back then with a walkman, but now with a MP3 player. Man oh man…..One song has become one of my favorites and this song was released in 1995. I love Smashing Pumpkins.


Shakedown 1979, cool kids never have the time
On a live wire right up off the street
You and I should meet
Junebug skipping like a stone
With the headlights pointed at the dawn
We were sure wed never see an end to it all
And I don’t even care to shake these zipper blues
And we dont know
Just where our bones will rest
To dust I guess
Forgotten and absorbed into the earth below
Double cross the vacant and the bored
They’re not sure just what we have in the store
Morphine city slippin dues down to see
That we dont even care as restless as we are
We feel the pull in the land of a thousand guilts
And poured cement, lamented and assured
To the lights and towns below
Faster than the speed of sound
Faster than we thought wed go, beneath the sound of hope
Justine never knew the rules,
Hung down with the freaks and the ghouls
No apologies ever need be made, I know you better than you fake it
To see that we dont care to shake these zipper blues
And we dont know just where our bones will rest
To dust I guess
Forgotten and absorbed into the earth below
The street heats the urgency of sound
As you can see theres no one around

My wish lists

October 28, 2006

My wish lists;
First of first is to finish my Ph.D. …..I hope that I will have to spend only one more year with this dissertation. I truely love my research, but sometime it’s a pain in the ass autschhh..!!



To travel : to Lisbon, Madrid, St.Petersburg, Tibet, Rio de Janeiro, Luxor, Victoria fall of Tanzania, Machu Picchu, the Great Barrier Reef, Stockholm and Kiruna for The Northern Light ,Istanbul, The Trans-Siberian, Mandalay, Angkor Wat, Yosemite Park, Silk Road, The Trans Patagonia, The Trans Canada…..and much more!!!!

To have : my own design office.

To be : a lecturer at my university, as I have promised to someone there.

My goodness, I wish to have so many things……However, Happy birthday to me to me. 😛

P.S.1 Thanks to Gooooogle for those images, which are gathered for this post.
P.S.2 Goshhhhhhhh, I have spent a lot of time to collect those images from Gooooogle!!!!….


My lastest trip with my boyfriend

October 24, 2006

Another trip of mine to Wernigerode, “Wernigerode is a town in Saxony-Anhalt, Germany. It is the capital of the district of Wernigerode. It is located southwest of Halberstadt, and is picturesquely situated on the Holtemme river, on the north slopes of the Harz Mountains. It contains several interesting Gothic buildings, including a fine town hall with a timber facade of 1498. Some of the quaint old houses which have escaped the numerous fires that have visited the town are elaborately adorned with wood-carving…….” Wiki



We,18 people, started from Berlin with The Weekend Ticket, which means pay 1 get 5, and therefore its price is very cheap. We departed very early in the morning, because it took 3.30 hours to arrive Wernigerode. Meanwhile, I had been looking forward to seeing this city. On the way, I started to take photo just from the beginning of the trip. (The morning sun is shown on the top)



The cityhall is one of the highlight. It was quite quiet, when we arrived……………………………too early for “normal tourist” to roam around..hehehe…..Later we started to explore here and there, before we went to the famous castle. Of course, one day trip is always in a hurry, so I had spent most of my time taking photos.





Until we reached the castle. The view from the castle to the city was spectacular. Especially this time, when leaves are changing color. These leaves created nostalgic feeling to the city. At the same time, cool wind, sunlight, noises from the woods added dramatic scene…..This is one of the most romantic and fun trip, I have ever made for this year with friends, my boyfriend and a great memory in my mind. 😛







Are we good enough for democracy?

October 23, 2006

1. Ruling is a skill.
2. It is rational to leave the exercise of skills to experts
3. In a democracy the people rule.
4. The people are not experts.

Democracy is irrational

From,and Bact’


But I think;
Democracy is be”lie”f.
Lie is hidden in be”lie”f.

Lie is hidden in democracy ?!?!

I miss hot meat!!

October 22, 2006

As we are now in the middle of Autumn, so the day gets shorter and the night gets longer. Leaves turn slowly yellow and soon everywhere will have become yellowish gold color, then brown. I like to see this change and it happens once a year. What I miss is, outdoor BBQ, and grilling. 😦

Sex in the kitchen, because love is an all day affair

October 20, 2006


Feeling adventurous? In the mood for something new? or even engaging in something a little different or even spontaneous?…hehehe….I know what you think!! :P..You can simply try to put on some sensual music, and begin preparing the meal. Let your boyfriend sitting on a chair, and bring your boyfriend something to eat, but don’t place it directly in his mouth; pass it underneath his nose, press it against his cheek; finally, slide it onto his tongue.


Now unbutton your shirt ..(just shirt!!), then pick up his hand and place it on your exposed skin. Tease him until he squirms, then walk away to prepare more food. Come back and try to unbutton your boyfriend’s shirt…slooooowly……thaaaaat’s it…..


Then walk away to prepare food again….meanwhile you can seduce him by words but don’t forget to be a bit playful and wild….:P As the evening progresses, the game becomes even more fun: now you can begin to remove the clothing of your boyfriend in the chair, one piece at a time…To have dinner and being naked at time can be somewhat fun. 😛

Men in uniform : America’s heroes 2007 calendar…what the heck?!?

October 15, 2006

“Some of the hottest hunks in the Marine Corps are posing for the America’s Heroes 2007 Calendar to raise money for wounded service members and their families. “as shown in Freedomisnotfree. I’m wondering, who the target group of this campaign is?!?! Because there are many negative rumors about being gay in the US. military!!!


One thing I can say is, many gay and women will buy this calendar, whether its purpose for charity or whatever.














From my point of view ” Many American are still very conservative and narrow minded about this matter as we might have seen from many debates concerning gay’s matter. In general circumstances e.g. to wear a low cut swimwear to a beach is considered as being gay, to have a clothing optional resort, which it sounds ridiculous to me because here in europe, one can be naked in many lakes, beaches etc. Meanwhile, LA, SF, NYC, DC are more open minded and tolerant to those who are homosexual, whereas in Midwest is slightly taboo. Now with this calendar from the Marine Corps !!! oh my oh my..what the heck is going on in this dubious society?!?!”


Sex food

October 13, 2006

Nutrition is very important for all of us and sex related is always a plus!! I cut some part out  from what I read in


Avocados contain high levels of glutathione, a potent antioxidant. Sperm count and quality are improved in the presence of antioxidants. They’re rich in magnesium and higher in fiber than apples. By keeping things moving through the body, they promote hormone balance and eliminate toxins that can sap your energy.


Strawberries put most foods to shame in the antioxidant department, and that means happier, healthier sperm. They support hormone balance for women through their high vitamin C content. Healthy ovaries contain high levels of this vitamin.


Pine nuts are high in the amino acid arginine, which is essential for sperm formation, and has been shown to improve men’s sexual performance. Their smooth richness can evoke moans of pleasure. Try them on salad. Fortify your lover by adding them to sautéed greens. Feed them to each other, slowly, one by one, out of hand. They are sexual health powerhouses, especially for men.


Asparagus is the other food, besides avocado, that contains appreciable amounts of glutathione (see above, guys). And asparagus is full of beta-carotene. That’s the stuff that makes carrots orange and winter squashes yellow.

2006 fall and trend reports

October 12, 2006


Fall has arrived and so fashion trend for this season. I had a quick look at Style and this year is slightly the same as the year before. Brown or earth tone is still the most classical way to dress yourself up. One thing, I am not crazy about brand f**king names. At the same time, I still respect another person courtesy ,and therefore I prefer to dress properly and well.


Well, there are many tips. First of first is to use your creativity by finding what you have in your closet and match up. Second, flea market doesn’t mean bad but it depends on what you seek. Third, Ebay….hehehehe….it is a place where one can buy cheap clothes. For your pocket sake, how many people would come to you and poke at your collar to see brandname tag ?!?!


All fashion designers use their imagination to create nice piece of work and so you could as well. Just practice this skill and you will be able to dress to kill on your next date. 😉 I, by the way, like to look at Style from time to time. Though I have already had a boyfriend. 😛