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12 spots for foreplay

November 22, 2006

There are 12 spots to learn and practice for foreplay. For the front side, please visit HERE.


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November 21, 2006

1. I have added a shout box on the sidebar, so now you can shout a message, a request, a greeting, or whatever.
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Tom of Finland

November 15, 2006

Another version of Tom of Finland by Joe Oppedisano. Joe Oppedisano is a photographer and he has done several styles of photography, yet those are gay oriented. In addition, his website also presents many photos of his work.

I, by the way, was fainting, when I had a look in his website, and especially the guy in the first photo looks really hot. 😛

Here comes the real Tom of Finland, Tom of Finland‘s real name is Touko – because he was born on 8 May 1920, on the south coast of Finland, and May in Finnish is “Toukokuu”. His homeland had been independent for just three years when Touko was born, and outside its few cities the country was still rough and wild. The men who worked in the fields and woods, the farmers and loggers, were true frontiersmen, every bit as rough and wild as the countryside.” Yes, that was his background and it could derive to become his inspiration. “At the end of 1956, at the urging of a friend, Touko sent his secret artwork to a popular American muscle magazine, but, being cautious in those paranoid times, and anyway thinking that “Touko Laaksonen” was too tough a name for American tongues, he signed them,”Tom”. The editor loved them. The cover of the Spring 1957 issue of “Physique Pictorial” features a laughing lumberjack, drawn by “Tom of Finland”. It was a sensation. Touko became Tom of Finland. The rest is history.”

Gay’s pleasure oral sex (Fellatio)

November 14, 2006

Sex is part of relationship as well as oral sex is part of sexual activity. It is a must to get to know, how we should do best, do you think so ?!?!. Well, you are not naive, aren’t you? 😉

Now techniques…

1.In order to practice this, get in a position where you can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge with your body sprawled across the bed so that your head is tipped sharply back. This position will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will allow your partner to approach you in such a way that insertion of his penis can be made so deeply that his pubic hair presses against your lips. The natural tendency of the body is to gag when a foreign object such as a deeply thrusting penis is being forced down your throat. You can overcome this tendency by completely relaxing your throat at the moment the insertion is made. It is equally important that you maintain this relaxation during the entire deep throating.

2. Let him put his penis down your throat and hold it still while you find the most comfortable way to proceed. Because of your position you will not be able to move or to offer him any greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing penis. If you are able try, to stimulate his underbelly with your tongue. You will only be able to relax and take his penis in this way if you completely trust your partner. Your partner is in full control. He must initiate and maintain all the motion. This is the only exercise in which you relinquish your control of the situation to your partner. He will relish this for the simple fact that for the first time he can insert his penis as deeply down your throat as he wants to. Now your partner begins an in and out movement that is just like fucking. He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the two of you. After all, if he hurts you he cuts himself off from one of the great pleasures in life. His only other requirement during this exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction throughout this oral exercise, as there is simply no leeway for him to vary the motion from side to side.

3. Don’t let your partner get carried away at the moment he starts to cum. At that spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to thrust his penis all the way inside your oral cavity and that is the most important lesson of this exercise! His only other requirement during the exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction against your lips as he cums. Because of your position in bed you will not be faced with the problem of swallowing his cum. The reason is because he has gotten his penis BEYOND your gag reflex! Without a condemn his cum will shoot directly into your stomach! If both you and your partner understand what it is that you are trying to do, as well as the possible problems that may “cum” up along the way, no harm or discomfort will happen to either of you.

“Deep throat”
You must allow your throat to relax completely while your partner is thrusting his penis this deeply down your throat. To do this long enough for your partner to completely get it off is very difficult and may require lots of practice. It may be that you will be able to take your partner completely down your throat, but you will not be able to maintain proper relaxation of your throat until he shoots his load. Hopefully your partner will understand that this is not a rejection of him or of what he is offering you, and it is my sincere desire that you not stop here and think that you will never master the “deep throat” technique.

Cum is a curious thing. It’s taste varies from person to person, mild to tangy. It’s good stuff nutritionally, being mostly protein and minerals; it’s the minerals that give the unique flavor. Take it or leave it, there’s nothing wrong with it, and it can turn out to be quite a nice treat. If you want to swallow it without hassle, take the climax deep in your mouth, and remember, “in each and every case, the faster it is swallowed, the less time the taste remains.” Vomiting, noisy hawkings, or dashing to the bathroom can be very rude and demeaning to someone who’s just climaxed, so if you don’t want to swallow it, remove it quietly afterwards, into a handy towel or handkerchief. Or if you like, things can always be switched from fellatio to masturbation or something else beforehand, but don’t do this too close to orgasm.

Ref : libchrist.

Don’t forget about SAFE SEX !!!!
You may also want to use condoms, which are highly recommended in the practice of safer sex anyway. Flavored condoms or a special Candy. will make it even more interesting. You can also try a nice water-based lubricant, such as Astroglide Strawberry. Even though
Flavored condom isn’t my kind. 😉

There’s more to fellatio than the penis
Too many people during fellatio concentrate solely on the penis. The penis does contain highly sensitive erectile tissue, but there are many other sexually sensitive areas on a man’s body. Unknown to many are the pleasures that men receive from having their entire genital area massaged. During oral sex the penis can be stimulated while these other areas are massaged. Many men like to have their scrotum and testes fondled or licked during oral sex. This could be as simple as placing your hand and cupping the scrotum, or as bold as taking the testes into your mouth. The most erogenous zones on a man’s genitals include the back of the head of the penis, the line of skin that runs down the center of the testicles, and the underside of the shaft of the penis. Try stimulating these areas with your tongue as well as taking the entire penis into the mouth.

Another form of stimulation that many men like is to have their perineum stroked. The perineum is the area in between the scrotum and the anus. This area is sensitive when the male is aroused. You may like to try rigorously massaging the perineum just prior to orgasm which gives many men a rush of pleasure. Some men like to have their prostate massaged during oral sex as well. This is accomplished by placing your finger up the man’s anus. Make sure that your fingernails have been cut short and place some lubricant on your finger. Gently run your hand from the perineum to the anus and massage the outside of the anus. Push your finger in the anus with your palm up. Slowly raise your finger until you feel a bump. This bump grows throughout age; it may be the size of a golf ball in young adulthood and the size of a pear in later life. Stimulation of the prostate is an incredible sensation that amazes most men.

Ref : Sexhealth

I love the Marlboro man.

November 10, 2006

“He’s handsome and rugged. He lives in a world of galloping horses, open spaces and blood red sunsets. He’s the Marlboro Man.” I love the Marlboro man.






Your size and secrets of gay sex

November 9, 2006

Well, I would like to start with the size first and to understand the physical matter of our juniors 😉

There is a research and it is called “The relation between sexual orientation and penile size“.
Whatever it may sound slightly discriminated or not. The report shows that homosexual men have larger penis than heterosexual men….wooooohoooooo(now i am naughty 🙂 )

The research! Anthony F. Bogaert, Ph.D., and Scott Hershberger, Ph.D.
The age average for this survey is 30 years old.
In inch,

Estimated erect size
gay        6.32
straight  5.99

Circumference of erect penis
gay       4.95
straight 4.80

Why do gay have bigger dick? ;o)
According to research, gay men have smaller physically than striaght men. But there is some fact like, a lower of prenatal masculinizing hormones e.g., testosterone, perticularly at critical periods, may reduce the loss of androgen receptors in the developing penis which allows it to grow to a larger size.

Other information Estimated erect size
++ A UCSF study by Wessells published in 1996 found an average of 5.1 inches (13.0 cm). (Measured by staff)
++ A study by a Brazilian urologist found an average of 5.7 inches (14.5 cm). (Measured by staff)
++ A German study in 1996 also reported an average of 5.7 inches (14.5 cm). (Measured by staff)
++ A study conducted by LifeStyles Condoms during 2001 Spring Break in Cancún found an average of 5.9 inches (15.0 cm). (Measured by staff)
++ A study conducted by the Korean Consumer Protection Board (KCPB) at a college campus found an average of 6.1 inches (15.5 cm).[citation needed]
++ A study conducted by the Journal of Sexology in Japan found an average of 5.1 inches (12.9 cm). (Measured by staff)

Circumference of erect penis
++ An UCSF study by Wessells published in 1996 found an average of 4.9 inches (12.5 cm). (Measured by staff)
++ A study by a Brazilian urologist found an average of 4.7 inches (12.0 cm). (Measured by staff)
++ A study conducted by LifeStyles Condoms during 2001 Spring Break in Cancún found an average of 5.0 inches (12.7 cm). (Measured by staff)
++ A study conducted by the Korean Consumer Protection Board (KCPB) at a college campus found an average of 5.0 inches.
++ A study conducted by the Journal of Sexology in Japan found an average of 5.1 inches (12.9 cm). (Measured by staff)
So now forget about the scientific research!! and come to the topic of sex hehehe…

Secrets of gay anal sex

++ Know how the anus works The anus is the opening at the end of the colon which controls the passage of waste. Waste passes through the small intestines to your colon, then your rectum and finally out the anus. The opening and closing of the anus is controlled by the internal and external sphincter muscles (the most important muscles when engaging in anal sex). The sphincter muscle is a sensitive membrane with many nerve endings and thus the source of pleasure or pain.

++ Reduce the pain Any pain associated with anal sex is due to pressure or friction against the sphincter muscles. The best ways to reduce pain during anal sex is to get to know how your sphincter (and body) works and to properly lubricate.

++ Get to know your body The more familiar you are with your body, the more enjoyable anal sex can be. Each person’s sphincter muscles react to penetration differently. Since the muscles control the opening and closing of the anus, you need to learn how yours works. Spend time safely exploring the sensitivity of your sphincter and how it reacts when you are relaxed or tense. Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing. Use a small sex toy, then gradually increase the size. Exploring the sensitivity of your sphincter is an exercise both you and your partner can enjoy prior to penetration. Openly communicate how you feel in certain situations: What makes you tense? What are your limits? Stop if you feel uncomfortable, experience pain or bleeding. The more you both know about your bodies, the better your anal sex experience.

++ Practice good hygiene Many gay men shy away from anal sex because of the possible hygiene problems. Maintaining proper hygiene is not only important for an enjoyable anal sex experience, but your health as well. Cleaning can be overdone, however. Be careful with over the counter internal cleansing products. They contain harsh ingredients not formulated for the anus. Also, avoid over wiping as this can cause irritation and bleeding. Baby wipes also contain perfumes that can irritate the skin. To properly clean, use premoistened adult wipes, like Charmin Fresh Mates or Kleenex Cottonelle Flushable Wipes.

++ Beware of the dangers of STD’s The anus is a thin membrane and therefore a hot bed for sexually transmitted diseases. HIV and other STD’s can easily enter the bloodstream, especially when there are abrasions or tears in the anus. Having a thin membrane between your bloodstream and your partner’s bodily fluids is what makes bareback sex so dangerous. Always use a condom and practice safer sex.

++ Dispel anal sex myths Many gay men avoid seeking medical attention because they feel if they’ve had anal sex the doctor can immediately tell. Yes, the anus is stretched after anal sex, but it returns to normal soon after. If you think something may be wrong with your anus, see a gay-affirmative doctor.

Calvin Klein underwear ads archive

November 7, 2006

I like Calvin Klein’s ads and also his design. The simplicity with his detailed design draws me to his stores from time to time. I, by the way, must confess that I own a few pieces of Calvin Klein underwear, even though I don’t usually buy brandname stuff. 😛

With a long business history, so he has launched many ads, and therefore I, who likes commercial art, have collected some of them and listed chronically.

Photo no.1 : Tom Hinthaus 1984
Photo no.2 : unknown model, in athletic underwear from Vanityfair 1992
Photo no.3-4 : Marky Mark 1993
Photo no.5 : Michael Bergin 1995
Photo no.6-7 : Antonio Sabato, Jr 1997
Photo no.8 : Travis Fimmel 2001
Photo no.9-10 : Fredrik Ljungberg 2006

“Calvin Richard Klein was born November 19, 1942, in the New York Bronx. Interested in fashion since childhood, a young Klein taught himself how to sketch and sew, and took his innate design skills with him to the classrooms of the New York High School of Art and Design. After a brilliant and provocative ad featuring Brooke Shields in the 1970s, his name became synonymous with designer jeans. Nowadays, he is famous for his underwear line, his extensive line of perfumes, the All-American look, and sticking to tradition, his provocative ads.” For further information about Calvin Klein’s underwear, please visit CKU

The colorful time of the year

November 6, 2006


Autumn is always with a rich palette of reds, oranges, browns and yellows. This is the colorful time of the year, when trees are shedding their leaves. This scene reminds me to Nat King Cole‘s song ;

“The falling leaves drift by the window
The autumn leaves of red and gold
I see your lips, the summer kisses
The sun-burned hands I used to hold”

I took these photos, while I roamed, and lingered around in a park of Ascherleben.



It’s him, again . He incidentally posed, while he looked at a bird, so I had to be in a hurry to catch the shot. There I got. :-). I still remember the moment, when we were wandering around in the park. It was such a romantic and peaceful moment. The tranquility maximized its importance in the surrounding, while we walked hand in hand.


Later we went near forrest picking up some mushrooms for our dinner at his aunt’s place. It was a short weekend trip and fabulous memory……..What a nice weekend. 🙂



Chippendale male dancers

November 5, 2006

“Chippendale dancers are a group of men who provocatively dance for a primarily female audience. They are best known as being shirtless, muscular and wearing little else but bow ties, white cuffs and black leather pants.


The original “Chippendales” nightclub was started by Indian immigrant and entrepreneur Somen “Steve” Banerjee. After owning a Mobil gas station and a failed backgammmon club, he used a small investment to purchase a failed Los Angeles club named “Destiny II”. Originally, Chippendales had female mud wrestling and a ‘Male Exotic Dancing Night’ for the ladies. It was the first one of its kind in the USA. Banerjee established a relationship with choreographer Nick DeNoia, who had won an Emmy Award directing children’s shows, in the early 1980’s. Nick was talented and driven. He recruited the ‘best looking’ men to bring women’s fantasies to life, not just strip tease. There is no doubt he played a major role in the successes that made Chippendales a world-famous institution….” via Wiki

All photos are from Official Chippendales Site USA.

For more photos, please visit The Men of Chippendales

Regarding to preceding information, I don’t believe that the major target group of Chippendales is women, because when I had a look at those photos, my adrenaline had been raised up as well. 😛

I live the life of faith

November 3, 2006


Woohoo………now is quite easy to add where I have been to a digital map…..Has life become easier than in the past?!? Oh my oh my, is there anything without interactive digital media in this era? I guess not. I’ve got this map from World66. Quite interesting website for everyone. 😛 In addition, I have not hit the Russian nor Far Eastern Europe area and yet this is an uncommon area, because they don’t speak English, or German, or even French. Those are only languages, which I can speak 😦


By the way, I still remember when I was young. Gay life was totally different, so people. I have met many people and seen many cultural diversities………. I love to travel and still have been travelling around like a normal backpacker, back then with a walkman, but now with a MP3 player. Man oh man…..One song has become one of my favorites and this song was released in 1995. I love Smashing Pumpkins.


Shakedown 1979, cool kids never have the time
On a live wire right up off the street
You and I should meet
Junebug skipping like a stone
With the headlights pointed at the dawn
We were sure wed never see an end to it all
And I don’t even care to shake these zipper blues
And we dont know
Just where our bones will rest
To dust I guess
Forgotten and absorbed into the earth below
Double cross the vacant and the bored
They’re not sure just what we have in the store
Morphine city slippin dues down to see
That we dont even care as restless as we are
We feel the pull in the land of a thousand guilts
And poured cement, lamented and assured
To the lights and towns below
Faster than the speed of sound
Faster than we thought wed go, beneath the sound of hope
Justine never knew the rules,
Hung down with the freaks and the ghouls
No apologies ever need be made, I know you better than you fake it
To see that we dont care to shake these zipper blues
And we dont know just where our bones will rest
To dust I guess
Forgotten and absorbed into the earth below
The street heats the urgency of sound
As you can see theres no one around

Happy Gayloween…..aftershock!!!

November 2, 2006


I found this photo lately, while I surfed to a gay webboard. It is really hilarious, isn’t it. It’s silent but deadly and comes drifting out of this fat ass, who was sitting right in front of someone. Ok…it sounds gross enough, and therefore this must be the most stinkiest pumpkin, I have ever smelt in my life.!!!!—> FEED or FART…..BOOOOO!!!!! 😛 😈


Happy Gayloween

October 31, 2006

Happy Gayloween….Gayloween is a tradition celebrated on the night of October 31, most notably by gay men dressing in costumes and going door-to-door collecting sweet cocks. Gayloween is often associated with the fetish. Many homosexual cultural traditions hold that Gayloween is one of the liminal times of the year when the men spirit can make contact with the physical world and when magic is most potent. Black and orange are the traditional colors of Gayloween. In modern Gayloween images and products, rainbow colors are also prominent. 😛