Bondage

August 5, 2006
Bondage is another kind of sexual activity, which one can apply to enhance his relationship or like say secret desire 😉 . It is considered as an adventure or somewhat exciting….(from my point of view).

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To speak about fantasy….fantasies of either tying someone up or being tied up or restrained during sex or sex play. It doesn’t have to be a full-on fetish and you don’t necessarily have to be into BDSM, maybe it’s just something you want to try for kicks. It’s fun to indulge these sexual fantasies, but for safety and comfort, it’s important to have the right equipment. Here are some tips on finding bondage gear and restraints to help you make your dungeon dreams come true.

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Restrain Yourself

Bondage may seem a bit intimidating at first, but it doesn’t have to be complicated or difficult. All you need to get started is a basic set of restraints, and maybe a blindfold or gag. Forget the duct tape, scratchy rope, and those cheap metal handcuffs; besides being uncomfortable, those can cause injuries. Instead, invest in some special bondage restraints that are safe and easy to use. If you and your partner are new to bondage play, you might want to get some soft fabric or nylon cuffs with quick-release Velcro closures. Other quality restraints are made of soft leather and fasten with buckles. Leather is attractive and durable, and the look, feeling, and smell of it can add to the overall atmosphere of your fantasy.

If you like the idea of handcuffs, try a pair that are specially designed for bondage play, ones that are covered with faux fur or leather. They’re just as effective as standard issue handcuffs, but the covering provides padding and prevents the metal and edges from chafing, scraping or pinching your partner’s skin. Be sure you keep the key handy and keep the spare someplace where you can find it easily.

Before you choose your restraints, you need to figure out how you’re going to be using them. Do you want to tie your lover down to the bed, to some other piece of furniture. If you’re going to tie your lover to the bed, you have options that don’t require heavy hardware or drilling holes and screwing bolts into the bedroom wall. Or you can get a restraint system that slides under and around your mattress and uses the weight of the bed to keep it in place.

All Tied Up
If you enjoy a more hands-on approach, you may want to try rope bondage. All you need to get started is to know is how to tie a few basic knots, but if you want to get more elaborate, you can investigate the art of Japanese rope bondage. This involves constructing intricate rope harnesses that wrap around the body, and are both decorative and functional. Japanese bondage rope is soft and flexible and specially designed for this sort of bondage.

Bondage Tips

++ Before you restrain your partner, communicate clearly with them about limits, and about what you will do.
++ Choose a “safe word” or clear signal for your partner to use to indicate if they need to stop during your session.
This should be a word that you would not usually use in a sexual situation.
++ If you restrain their arms or legs, make sure the restraints are not too tight and are not restricting circulation.
++ Make sure your partner is not in discomfort or restrained in a position that could cause injury.
++ Don’t leave anyone alone while they are restrained, and don’t leave someone tied up for long periods of time in the same position.
++ If you’re using a gag, blindfold, mask, or anything else that covers the face, make sure their airways are not restricted or blocked.
++ Be careful about tying someone up to furniture or fixtures that must bear their body weight; shower heads and the like are not meant to support a lot of weight.
++ Don’t leave your partner’s arms or legs suspended for a prolonged period of time; this leads to loss of circulation and numbness.
++Make sure the restraints are secure and will not tighten more when they pull against them.
++ If you’re using handcuffs or any other device that locks, keep the key handy and a spare in a safe place.
++ You can use bondage as a foreplay activity or main event in your sex session; restraining and playing with someone is a great way to get them warmed up for other things.

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